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yescaressme:

my policy is, no matter how kinky or vanilla the sex was, always give ur partner a lil smooch. a lil cuddle. a lil reassurance. they’re safe, you’re safe, everything’s good and happy. 

cub-shipping:

So maybe I hang in the wrong circles and I don’t see anything else but (not that there’s anything inherently wrong about the mainstream circles in the SI community) I don’t see a lot of positivity for NSFW self insertion.

Support your self inserting friends who:

》Draw NSFW fanart/write NSFW fics about their F/Os
》Write NSFW headcanons about their F/Os
》Fantasize sexual situations w their F/Os
》Arent satisfied with the “uwu fluff” and crave a sexual relationship (not that there’s anything wrong w fluff)
》Want sexual relationships w their F/Os but not IRL or are asexual IRL
》Are hypersexual (I know I am and others who are)
》Have a sexual relationship w their F/O but don’t want it made public

Feel free to add more but remember, I’m not saying those of you who stick to SFW content only or only think of your F/Os in a non sexual way don’t deserve positivity and support, I’m just providing validation for those of us that do. You’re still valid.