one nsfw thing im suuuuuper soft on is like… making love when one of you is sad. you know? like if your f/o is a really physical person or not great with words but they know you’re upset and they just need to show you how much they care about you and how much you’re loved so they take you to bed and spend all night on you. or if your f/o is feeling down or hopeless and they just need to be touched and held and caressed and reminded of how much you adore every inch of them. and it’s not even about the sex and neither of you really care if you finish, you just gotta be close to each other and you know there aren’t very many words that you or they could say that would make things better so you let your physical actions do the talking. that’s always gonna get me.